Could we not just pretend we've already had this battle and I've already won?
I like to pick and choose my battles, but some are thrust upon me. Every morning I battle with The Boy to get him up and dressed for school. I always win, eventually, but I am getting fed up with it. This morning I did indeed say, "Boy (well, actually I used his name, but I shall call him Boy here), could we not just pretend that we've already had this battle and just move on to the point where you give in and get dressed?", but for some reason that didn't wash with a 4 year old.
Angelic now, but you just try getting them dressed for school.
A good friend of mine has recently decided that pocket money should be linked to behaviour and I am rapidly coming round to her way of thinking. We haven't introduced pocket money yet, but at 6 and 4, I think that the eldest two may be ready for it. The Boy certainly seemed keen when I mentioned it to him and The Eldest called out from her bath that she would like a reward chart too. I am more than sure that the Feral One will rapidly get the idea and set up some scheme to diddle the older two out of theirs, save up, invest, buy, sell and end up owning the world and ruling us all.
Plotting to rule the world.
I have to work out an appropriate amount - enough to buy a comic and a chocolate bar at the local shop would probably be about right, if I can deal with the tantrums that are bound to erupt when they don't have enough. I also need to work out what needs to go on it and to not make it too complicated as I'm tempted to put down every single piece of behaviour on it, but I know I need to focus on just a select few. Just the morning routine for now, we can work on other things once we have that on the go. I think that we will design them tomorrow after school and I will let you know how we get on.