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| On the move again... |
Half way through our
recent trip back to the UK, it became apparent that, for various reasons, a
move back there earlier than we had originally planned was on the cards. Having spent the first half of the
holiday crying because we didn’t live in the UK, I then spent the second half
crying because we were going to leave Australia. Ok, so that’s a bit of an exaggeration because mainly we
just had a lovely lovely time, but tears had been shed both before and after
the discovery.
We will be sad to
leave Australia, of course we
will; we have many lovely friends here and the lifestyle is just fabulous. The school that the kids attend is amazing. We’ve had a wonderful
time. However, we are actually
very much looking forward to moving back to the UK too. It will be so nice to be close to
family and old friends again. I’m
also looking forward to a countryside that doesn’t try to kill us every time we
step foot in it! So come mid-January, we will be winging our way back to the UK.
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| Dolly |
We are taking Dolly the puppy back with us.
It’s very straight forward to get her back to the UK and, once we’re
there, Digby Dog will re-join us.
Flo (our other dog), has settled so well in the company of my niece that
it doesn’t seem fair on either of them to separate them, so she will stay put
at my sister’s. As the Aussies
would say, “Too Easy”.
On to the second part
of this essay! We have taken the
decision that I will Home Educate the children in the UK. There are many reasons behind
this. The one that is easiest for
most people to understand is that we are in flux. We will stay at my mother’s for 6 weeks or so whilst our
shipment makes it’s way across the oceans and, even once we are back in our
house, the upcoming take over of the company that The Husband works for by
another company, mean that we really have no idea how long we will be settled
for. I would really hate to settle
the children into school and then have to move them 2 or 3 months later. Home Education means greater
flexibility for the family at this point in our lives. There are other reasons behind the decision
too; the different academic years that the older two are in (The Eldest will
just be finishing Grade 3 here, she would have to go straight into half way
through Year 5, and similar for The Boy – from Grade 1 to half way through Year
3); the Eldest’s Aspergers; various issues that have come to light with The Boy and so on. All in all, some time at
home will hopefully be helpful to all of us.
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| Digby and The Husband on our recent trip back to the UK. |
Some frequently asked
questions!
“But What About
Socialisation?!” (This seems to be
the war cry from people who are anti Home Ed) There is a strong Home Ed
community in the UK. I am already
in touch with various groups that meet regularly. It seems that we can do everything from Horse Riding lessons,
to Art Club, to Gymnastics, to GCSE courses. There are also all the after school activities
that we can do, including Drama and Team sports. Do not fear, I am not intending on locking the children in a cupboard with no outside influence...
“Do you have to follow
a set curriculum?” No is the short answer there, we can pretty much do what we
want. Some people who Home Ed have
no curriculum at all, following the interests of the children, whilst others
follow the National Curriculum to the letter. We will be treading a middle path, loosely following the
National Curriculum (to make re-entry into school further down the line, if
appropriate, easier) but also taking time to follow our own interests. I want
the children to really be into their learning, to discover that the world is a
fabulously interesting place and that there is nothing “Boring” (the most
frequent insult that my children seem to lobby at school!) about learning.
“Do you need to go on
a course to be able to do it?” Well, I am
a primary school teacher, so I am completely comfortable about meeting their educational
needs at this point in their journey.
As it happens though, no you don’t need to take a course, anyone can do
it and a lot of parents with no training at all do a fabulous job.
“How long will you do
it for?” Well, how long is a piece of string? As long as it seems the right thing for us to be doing. Many Home Educated children take their
exams and go onto University, so I am not hugely concerned about that bit. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves,
who knows what will happen in the next couple of years, let’s just go with the
flow a bit.
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| My "Nooper" Heroes. What can possibly go wrong?! |
“Won’t you go nuts
having the children around all the time?” Maybe! But to be honest, we are happiest as a family when we are
doing our own thing. Most of the
time that arguments break out are when we are under time pressure to do
something and be somewhere; especially if the children are already exhausted
from a day at school. Considering
that most people agree that everything that needs to be taught can be
done in a couple of hours every day, that frees up an awful lot of time to do
our own thing.
What’s the WORST thing
that can happen? Well, we can
decide that it isn’t working for us and that the kids need to go into
school. Truly, if that’s the worst
outcome, then I think we’re onto a winner. We are all super excited about giving it a go.
